Chick Flicks: Bury Them or Love Them?
By S. Hof and Kendall Jent
For our first He Says/She Says article, Kendall and I decided to compile it into an actual debate rather than two separate articles as we had originally planned. And as our first topic, we chose none other than…Chick flicks. As can be expected, I rather like chick flicks while Kendall…Not so much.
He: Chick flicks are filled with romance and lack action, adventure, and comedy. Why would you want to rent that?
She: Actually, many chick flicks double as comedies, and while they can miss out on action and the like, romance is plenty adventure. Romance also deals with betrayal and other darker themes.
He: Do you mean middle-aged divorcees staring at men? Because that’s not what romance and action are about.
She: Actually, by adventure I meant overcoming impossible obstacles in order to find true happiness, but yours is okay too, I guess.
He: What do you mean by, ‘impossible obstacles’? Women asking a guy out on a date? That’s not too hard and makes for a dry story.
She: I agree, that would make for a dry story…If that was really what chick flicks are about. Generally, the movies are about two people who, under circumstances that differ from film to film, find it difficult to be together and about not about a girl asking out a guy.
He: There’s nothing difficult about getting together. You just go over and ask them if they would like to go out. Chick flicks center around nothing.
She: So you’re saying that there are no circumstances in which two people could find it difficult to be with each other? What about Romeo & Juliet? The story is old, but it’s a common theme. Two lovers divided by the hate of their families might have trouble going out on Saturday nights.
He: Romeo & Juliet is a good example. As I recall, Romeo and Juliet did see each other, and it was based on his unimaginable actions that he was forced to go away.
She: Exactly! That sort of twist is what makes a good story. Chick flicks are about overcoming obstacles. It’s not always centered around romance, but can deal with family, past friendships, or death of a loved one. Sometimes, as in the case of young Juliet and her Romeo, the obstacles aren’t always easily overcome and there is no happy ending. The point is that the stories themselves can be thrilling and help the audience feel emotionally involved and connected with both the characters and their problems, making them fun to watch.
He: Obstacles about overcoming a difficult thing. Movies centered around past friendships are stupid because if they were really friends, they’d remember each other. Plus action movies have deaths of loved ones so by centering a chick flick around it means that the writers of that story cannot come up with anything better to say. Honestly who would want to watch a movie that completely centers around someone overcoming a death or friendship? They do not follow traditional stories because they lack vital ingredients like a climax.
She: Can you honestly say that after you’ve grown and either you move away or your friends do, you’ll keep in touch with every single one of them? Things happen. And while action movies do have deaths, those deaths do not drive the story, as in the case of movies like Elizabethtown in which the common theme is the death of the main character’s father. Chick flicks do contain climaxes. Tuck Everlasting. Should she become immortal and wait for Tuck to return, or live her life? It’s a suspenseful moment. It may not have things blowing up, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be enjoyable.
He: Anyway, chick flicks are sappy, boring, and filled with cheap characters who have no real problems, only the ones they create in their heads.
She: Chick flicks are good stories to watch. They help people get in touch with their emotions and feel empathy for others. And speaking on a personal note, I always feel good about myself when I finish a chick flick; like I’ve overcome something, too. It’s important to have these touching stories in our lives because it’s not always just another screenplay from Hollywood; these things really happen, and by watching them, really watching them, we grow a little bit as people.